A study has been done on spending more than income in urban areas and the changes in the place of marriage. The impact of modernity on the cost of marriage is clearly visible. The change in the traditional form of marriage is clearly visible in this study. Interest in spending more than income has increased in people and changes are also seen in the place of marriage. Due to which marriage is losing its original form. Along with this, demand and tension etc. Are being seen in marriage. Efforts can be made to maintain the traditional form of marriage by bringing positive changes in education.